Private coaching · Jane Davidson, EdD, CTRC
Bring the part you keep circling back to.
Coaching for painful relationship patterns, family estrangement, complicated grief, and rebuilding self-trust. You may understand what happened and still struggle with guilt, boundaries, or what comes next. We make room for both the understanding and the practical decisions you face now.
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For first-time clients to discuss what brings you here and see if we’re a good fit. No obligation to book paid sessions. See sessions & pricing ↓
What we can explore
The present often has a history.
You do not have to know which category your experience belongs in. These are some of the places we can begin.
Painful relationship patterns
Feeling tolerated rather than wanted. Over-explaining, carrying the emotional work, or being expected to keep the peace after someone else causes harm.
Family estrangement & changing contact
Living with distance, rejection, or a relationship that no longer feels workable. Sorting through grief, guilt, loyalty, and boundaries without assuming reconciliation is your goal.
Grief with no simple ending
Loss after a death, the absence of someone still living, or grief for the family, care, or life you hoped for. Space for the parts other people rush past.
Boundaries & self-trust
Knowing something hurts and still doubting your right to respond. Clarifying what you need, practicing how to say it, and considering what you can do when a boundary is ignored.
My approach brings together nearly 20 years in the classroom, doctoral research on human connection, and trauma-informed education. We connect what you’re experiencing with patterns you can recognize and choices you can use in your own life.
You set the priorities. We can examine your part in a relationship without making you responsible for someone else’s behavior.
In a session
We start where you are.
There is no script you have to follow.
Tell me what is on your mind.
We begin with what feels most present, whether it is a recent event or an old question that keeps resurfacing.
Look for the pattern.
We slow the story down and get curious about the thoughts, reactions, and rules that formed around it.
Take something useful with you.
That may be a clearer question, a different way to understand a response, or one practical thing to try.