The Humble Pie
The Humble Pie · An online learning community
A reel can name the thing you’ve carried for years. Here, lessons and guided conversations help you understand what shaped it, how it shows up in relationships, and what you may want to do differently now.
Explore The CutSeven days free to look around · Then $37/month
Next in The Cut · Live teaching with Jane Davidson, EdD
When did belonging become something you had to earn?
6–7 PM Mountain · Online inside The Cut
Sometimes you realize you’ve spent years trying to earn something very ordinary: someone being pleased that you arrived. Not because you came to help. Because it was you.
In this session, we’ll use family, work, friendship, and partnership examples to examine the conditions attached to belonging, then connect them to purpose, grief, and the choices actually available to us.
Included with membership: live teaching, guided discussion, and a fillable reflection companion. No preparation or personal disclosure required. Participate, write privately, or listen.
Start your 7-day free trialThen $37/month. Review membership and trial terms on Skool before joining. Start your trial before Tuesday’s session to attend.
A moment behind the question
01 / Why this space exists
Sometimes a sentence lands because it gives language to a feeling you’ve never quite been able to explain. The Cut is a place to slow down after that moment and examine the patterns beneath it.
Why does being needed sometimes feel like being loved? Why can asking for care feel like asking too much? What happens when belonging depends on silence? We connect these everyday questions to family rules, attachment, the ways our bodies adapted, and grief that went unnamed.
The aim is to help you notice patterns, distinguish care that goes both ways from care that depends on your usefulness, and consider your needs, boundaries, and choices with greater self-trust.
There’s no requirement to disclose your history or arrive with the right vocabulary. You can listen, learn, reflect, and participate at your own pace.
02 / Inside The Cut
Your $37 monthly membership includes the classroom, weekly live teaching, coffee chats, and the member discussion feed.
On-demand lessons and reflection prompts help you examine one idea at a time. Begin with “Before You Begin,” then explore the available lessons at your own pace. Topics include family roles, attachment, stress responses, and grief. The classroom is being refined; available lessons may change as the courses are updated.
We meet Tuesdays at 6 p.m. Mountain Time for teaching and guided conversation about relationship patterns, grief, boundaries, and self-trust. Bring a question, take part, or simply listen. Session reflection companions are shared in the community for you to use privately or alongside the conversation.
Coffee chats meet Wednesdays at 7 a.m. Mountain Time for a less structured conversation. Between meetings, use the member discussion feed for questions and reflections. Check the Skool calendar for current dates, any schedule changes, and times in your own time zone.
03 / The way we work
Some days the useful question is “What happened here?” Other days it’s “Why can’t I be curious about this yet?” Both belong. I teach as an educator and trauma-informed coach, with care for what people have lived through and respect for what they choose to share.
We make room for difficult experiences and use questions, reflection, and learning to broaden our understanding. You decide what feels relevant and what you want to explore further.
The Cut is an educational community, not group therapy or a substitute for mental health care.
A place to begin
Look around for seven days free. Stay if the conversations and lessons feel useful to you.
$37 / month after the free trial
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